The Power of Vulnerability

We live in a society that rewards those with courage and valor. We are taught from a young age that it’s good to face our fears, for doing so is often the catalyst for powerful and lasting change.

And yet, how many of us allow ourselves to be vulnerable?

Think of the amount of courage it takes to allow yourself to be in a position where your heart might get broken. To say “I love you” first. How much courage does it take to put yourself out there and make new friends? Go for that promotion? Rely on others instead of only ourselves?

The Benefits of Vulnerability

We know the obvious benefits of courage. Wars are won, criminals are put in jail, and people are saved from burning buildings. But how can we benefit from being vulnerable?

More Intimacy

Opening up to another human being and sharing your deepest emotions is what ultimately builds healthy and lasting relationships. When we expose our authentic selves, we set ourselves up for potential heartache, yes, but also for ultimate connection. Within intimate relationships, it’s often easier to avoid difficult conversations out of fear of rejection or ridicule. Having these conversations though and showing up as our authentic selves, is what actually builds that desired intimacy and connection.

Better Self-Worth

Being vulnerable also allows us to accept ourselves as we are, flaws and all. This helps us to STOP comparing ourselves to others and experience a tremendous boost in our self-esteem and self-worth. Owning your own vulnerability is very powerful in setting yourself apart from others. Allowing the uniqueness that makes up who you are to be seen, takes so much courage and should be acknowledged by those closest to you…but most importantly by you! Go ahead and give yourself that pat on the back, you deserve it;)

It Promotes Compassion

Getting comfortable with our own vulnerability means we can also be comfortable with others.  And this means, that in those times when the people in our lives show their vulnerability to us, we can respond with compassion. Showing compassion to others also increases the level of intimacy and connection. More importantly though, when someone is unshielded from you, be sure to acknowledge and thank them for trusting you with their vulnerability. I promise that will go a long way in securing the bond between you.

Start Your Journey

As they say, every journey starts with a single step. Your journey toward embracing your own vulnerabilities will also start with a single step. This may mean spending more quiet time alone. It may mean the next time a good friend asks, “How are you?” you tell them the truth, instead of the standard “I’m fine” response.

It may also mean digging deep and uncovering some old wounds and darkness that you have been ignoring. For this part of the journey, you may want to consider seeking guidance from a trained life coach who can offer tools and advice to get you on the path to genuine happiness.

If you’d like some assistance on your journey, please get in touch with me. I’d be more than happy to discuss how I may be able to help.

Much Love,

Angie